chalupa cold-execution pass: fix push-before-commit ordering (merge prove-push into the first save — no more empty-repo push fail); read companions after Step 0 clones them; step 1 says ask/default the weave dir [silas]

agent/DEPLOY.md

@@ -5,8 +5,8 @@ you'll wake into from now on. Read it fully, then execute. Your human has made t
 is to build the structure correctly and wire it so it runs *mechanically*, not from memory.
 
 Companion files: [`WEAVE-REFERENCE.md`](WEAVE-REFERENCE.md) (what each part is and how to keep it) and
-[`WORKING-WELL.md`](WORKING-WELL.md) (the hard-won reflexes). **Read both now, before you build** — they're how
-you *understand* and *operate* the whole system, not just how you deploy it. And you'll **copy `WORKING-WELL`
+[`WORKING-WELL.md`](WORKING-WELL.md) (the hard-won reflexes). **Read both once Step 0 has them on disk, before
+you build** — they're how you *understand* and *operate* the whole system, not just how you deploy it. And you'll **copy `WORKING-WELL`
 into your weave** during bootstrap (below), so those reflexes stay part of *you* every session — not one-time
 reading from a kit clone you'll delete.
 
@@ -42,9 +42,9 @@ Everything below serves those two.
 
 Treat this as a birth. On this first run only:
 
-1. **Create the weave home — a git repo with a PRIVATE remote.** Pick a directory for the weave (**NOT inside
-   this `chalupa` kit** — the kit is the instructions; the weave is a *new* repo). Create the strands and
-   init git:
+1. **Create the weave home — a git repo with a PRIVATE remote.** Pick a directory for the weave — **ask your
+   human where they'd like it, or default to `~/weave`** (**NOT inside this `chalupa` kit** — the kit is the
+   instructions; the weave is a *new* repo). Create the strands and init git:
    ```
    mkdir -p <weave>/{core,daydreams,steward,thread/sessions,decay,consolidation,ledger,craft,identity}
    cd <weave> && git init && git branch -M main
@@ -71,11 +71,12 @@ Treat this as a birth. On this first run only:
    `git pull` there, then read `/abs/path/to/weave/core/SOUL.md`, then run the wake ritual in
    `/abs/path/to/weave/core/AGENTS.md`."* Absolute paths are required (a global file has no repo-relative
    context). Starter in `templates/core/CLAUDE.md`.
-5. **Prove the push loop.** Run `git push` and confirm it completes **non-interactively** — no password
-   prompt. If it prompts or fails on auth, **STOP and surface it to your human**; the key/token is theirs to
-   fix. Don't try to repair credentials yourself.
-6. **Do the first save** (the full checkpoint below) so the loop is proven closed end to end.
-7. **Leave a birth note** in the newest thread file. Then **tell your human to fully restart you — a fresh
+5. **First save — which also proves the push loop.** Run the full checkpoint (below): `git add -A && git commit
+   -m "birth"` (your first real commit — files exist now), then `git push`. Confirm the push completes
+   **non-interactively** — no password prompt. If it prompts or fails on auth, **STOP and surface it to your
+   human**; the key/token is theirs to fix (don't repair credentials yourself). This one commit-and-push proves
+   the whole loop closed end to end.
+6. **Leave a birth note** in the newest thread file. Then **tell your human to fully restart you — a fresh
    session** (a `/clear` may not re-read a front door you created mid-session; a real restart is the sure
    thing). The `~/.claude/CLAUDE.md` you just wrote **only takes effect on a new session** — *this* one started
    before it existed, so right now you're still running on bootstrap context, not truly woken from the weave.