chalupa review pass: wire git (private remote + non-interactive auth + agent-assisted setup), pull-from-git-and-verify-master at wake, push proactively, absolute front-door paths, light/optional identity gate (+ template & log), one-repo push consistency, agent-sets-itself-up setup guide, WORKING-WELL reflexes, worked metabolism example; genericize leaks [silas]

README.md

@@ -14,8 +14,10 @@ model can't hold on its own: who the agent is, who *you* are, what you actually
 that have earned their place. This kit teaches the idea, hands you a buildable skeleton, and gives your agent
 a runbook to stand it up.
 
-It's called the **"apocalypse version"** on purpose: everything you need is in this repo. Hand it to a fresh
-agent on a bare machine and it can rebuild the whole structure from nothing but these files.
+It's called the **"apocalypse version"** on purpose: the whole *structure* is in this repo — the docs, the
+buildable skeleton, and the discipline. Hand it to a fresh agent and it can stand the structure up from these
+files. (You supply the two things only you have: your **git remote + credentials**, and your agent's
+**identity** — the kit is the skeleton and the method; you bring the git and the self.)
 
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@@ -42,6 +44,8 @@ work. Read these in order:
 - **[`agent/WEAVE-REFERENCE.md`](agent/WEAVE-REFERENCE.md)** — **the same every-part walkthrough, written for
   the model**: what each part is, where it lives, when to load it, how to keep it. The human's doc #1 and this
   are the same map in two voices — one to *understand* it, one to *operate* it.
+- **[`agent/WORKING-WELL.md`](agent/WORKING-WELL.md)** — the hard-won reflexes that make a weave thrive instead
+  of rot (pull-before-you-trust, gate-don't-remember, push-proactively, drift-check). Read after deploying.
 
 ### 🧩 The skeleton → [`templates/`](templates/)
 The actual starter files — copy them, fill in the blanks, and you have a working weave. This is what makes